QUOTE(Bob-sama @ Jan 6 2008 at 04:11 PM)

nForce 780i is basically an expensive 680i + an additional PCI Express 2.0 bridge. I'd say it's worth it if prices are within $20. I'd personally stay away from nForce chipsets because you said one thing in your post... "still need a stable system". nForce chipsets are basically the least stable Intel chipsets... your better choice is an Intel P35 chipset. If you plan on spending ~$220 (high-end 680i or 780i), get an Intel X38 chipset. They're much better. If you've not already purchased an 8800GT or 8800GTS, get a Radeon HD 3870. Also note that Crossfire appears to be scaling up much better than SLI does. Also, a Radeon HD 3850 is $170-$180 USD and a Radeon HD 3870 is $250 USD. That being said, a GeForce 8800GT is $270 USD (last check it was) and a GeForce 8800GTS G92 is $300+ USD. You'll be saving money in the long run, plus the HD3870s can be overclocked quite well.
I admire your willingness to help, Bob, but this is not about which graphics card to choose.

Adding to that, the 8800 GT and GTS are going to drop another 10-20 bucks, and easily outperform the Radeon 3 series.
Now, if you don't want SLI, stay away from nVidia. Like Bob said, their chipsets are expensive, hot, instable, average performing and the only advantage is support for SLI. Instead, get an Intel P35 chipset. There's no point in getting an X38 right now, as the P35 has almost identical performance, and the X38 is a lot more expensive than the P35.
If you're going to buy a motherboard, I really recommend taking a look at the Asus P5K or the MSI P35 Neo2-FR, as they seem the best motherboards out there for really low prices.