I have tried two i found online, wax, and zweistien, and both were wayyy to confusing.

Zweistein isnt good at all.
Ive never heard of Wax, but have you tryed Windows Movie Maker?
Its not confusing at all, tidy as a tidy table.

I have, but im lookign for one that will allow me to reverse a clip, plus the speeding up isnt that good, they dont sound like chipmunks.