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QUOTE (Ramon)
Is there a need to be so condescending down to the last sarcastic smiley face, Yuanrang? Your post is riddled with a sense of superiority that drips off the page whether it be well warranted or not. I'm going to go ahead and cut out the parts that are not really relevant to me or do not interest me.
I've always been the type of person I've been ever since I joined, am I meant to change just because I was chosen to handle responsibilities and power? You criticise me with irony, I defend myself with sarcasm. Condescending? In ways where it's intending to be as a direct response, yes it was a condescending post mostly aimed at Agent F which, in turn had reported my post with a condescending lecture note about the rules. That part of my second post was a direct rebuttal to him.
In fact, barring my first sarcastic reply to you and that rebuttal, I was pretty much rather polite and explained why you two weren't really right when you think I'm doing the same and I tried my best to explain that in a fairly understandable manner. The midpart directed to Agent F was a pointer because of something he said I was wrong about in his report, and as such, it was a pointer to him why he was being wrong so he could pay attention to the answer. That part, believe it or not, was of polite intent.

I do not consider myself above anyone in the sense that I'm superior. I might be arrogant of nature, I concur. I might also have an elitist view of "the good old days", I'm willing to admit that as well, but I do not think my member group in any way make me a better person or a better forumer then you. I do believe it brings me additional responsibilities, though I don't think it makes me special. I follow the same ruleset as any other member on this forum. I follow the extra guidelines for the Staff and clauses there. I always consult and respect the Staff in matters as this (which is why the report were under review and now exist as a notepad discussion in the report center), and I'm open to the fact that I'm wrong. I asked the Staff to say I was wrong if they felt like that here in this topic, publically, for all to see and if that happen, I'll accept that.
As lilshu pointed out, as courteous as us Mods 'n' Admins are to each other, we're not afraid to confront each other if we do something wrong and all of us like to review ourselves. I like that, they're sharp people, they know when something's wrong and they know it shouldn't be hidden.

An act might not accurately reflect true nature. Arrogance, sarcasm, condescending nature, stoic behaviour and multiple other ways of acting is effective in certain situations. I think that I'm one of those Mods that don't really fear using them as long as it's within acceptable frames. It serve a purpose and as several other people have stated through-out the years, the Staff aren't babysitters, we're here to see things running properly. If me being rude (as you seem to see it?) bring a point out to those that I'm directing myself to, then it serve its purpose. I have my friends here, I'm not out to make any more of them. I don't have time for it. However, if my behaviour make you read this post in its entire state, thinking about it enough (since I'm assuming you're reading this in the intent to reply to it) and my stance on the matter itself, I can also convey my message and make you consider it. I don't really care if you dislike me as a person, I'm not here to be liked by everyone nor do I try that, but I'm here to be around my friends, relax now and then with topics that interest me and also help the forum as a whole.
Dislike me and my attitude, though it made you think over my stance on the discussion, didn't it?

QUOTE (Ramon)
Even though you are joking, I would assume that the rule applies reflexively; however, there is no definite mention of this, and thus I don't think you can assume either.
Thus I act in the way I've seen moderators before me and also being a moderator in my time, have done. I'm not the only one doing this, nor am I the first. I act as I've seen others act and I do my best to be professional about it, there's no rule either way so I can't quite claim to be right and back it up directly, which is why I invited the rest of the Staff to voice their disagreement with me if they were of another opinion. In this thread, just to underline that.

QUOTE (Ramon)
I understand and empathize with your situation, but the examples you give are all done out of convenience and do not affect someone else's supposed privacy. Once you cross the line of pulling out someone's information that is supposedly private between said person and moderator, a precedent is set which implies that moderators can share warn logs at their own digression. Is this really a good thing? After this rule is loop holed, which one's next?
Aye, but that's certain normal actions that's required us to break rules though but I can't discuss directly, but there's a few other cases we might indulge ourselves on (even though I can't go into detail since they're confined to the Mod Board) such as making Multiple Accounts (in extreme circumstances related to Moderating, IIRC once), Misleading Content (certain fun forum hunts come to mind

), Advertising (yes, it's been done in official posts pointing to other fansites) and so on and so on.
My point is, the forum rules exist for everyone, but they might occasionally be a hinder when it comes to forum moderating and conveying official messages from the Staff and, as such, we can bend them if it's of a positive influence. I do believe that, by directing myself directly to someone who share a warning log, I can point out to people around that such post isn't really truthful as to the real reason these notations is in the warning log in question, I also indicate that a moderator have seen the post so it doesn't have to be moderated and it also help to inform the one sharing the post wrong that he has mistaken the notation in question.
It all serve a purpose in one way or another. I would never openly go up to someone randomly and share logs like that, that's wrong. I personally think that Thomas was trying to advocate that the Rules and moderational methods regarding such should be changed and I've already agreed on that earlier in the thread.

QUOTE (Ramon)
Let us be honest here. If you were to seriously consider your position here on the forums, as one of the oldest if not the oldest moderators, you would probably agree that few people dare to disagree with you. One would be hard pressed to find anyone as ethereally respected and with less authority than you; including some admins. Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying that other moderators neglect their duty or follow veteran influence blindly; however, I am saying that in any challenge that you pose, in this case the report by Agent F, few are going to contest you whether moderator or not. Thus, I do not think that an open report holds much substance as it should, and should determine if Agent F is justified in his report. However, that being said, I'm sure many of you will contest this, but it is something worth contemplating.
Aye, let's be honest. I'm one of the Great Old Ones (H.P Lovecraft

), and I know that might carry around a certain weight. However, who better to know me then those who's spent their time debating and discussing directly with me in the Moderator Board then? The Staff (I include retired ones in this since they discuss and debate a lot too) know me professionally and quite a few know me on a friendly basis as a person. As you already said earlier, they know their stuff, they're good at arguing and they're certainly not any lightweight themselves. I find it a bit hard to think that someone would avoid disagreeing with me directly considering they're pretty much too strong willed to be intimidated (since I'm not their superior

) and also that they'd disagree in private in the mod board and not publically.
It might stop members from doing it, of course. I dislike that, people tend to be hesitant to disagree with people with a certain sense of power and authority and I think that's wrong. We're all free to voice our rights around here. Hell, I basically became a DM and a Mod (I assume this, I don't quite know) because I was active in discussing things with people and having heated discussions about the forum. I've made a living of being a guy debating things around here in my own unique way, I haven't changed. I doubt people would run in fear just as long as I voice my voice if they know me.
I want to be disagreed with, why do you think I make an effort in being a bit 'aggressive 'n' rude'? As you can see, I'm quite capable of being nice, polite and respecting the opinion of others. However, I've learned that attitude can spawn discussions to be far more direct, constructive and extensive as long as there's personal motivation hence the occasional act to serve my intentions and views.
Whenever I enter a discussion as this, I pretty much want to be disagreed with since I'm quite fond of discussing my views and opinions, as I think you can see.
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Yuan's influence has a far reach even if he's not aware of it.
I'm quite aware of it, which is why I try to stick to the matter at hand as well and take time voicing my opinion or simply defending my view or actions. I don't like slacking with things like this, nor do I deliberately try to cause issues. I started out initially to make the debating members of this thread aware that Thomas wasn't quite as truthful as he seemed to be, thus trying to make people aware that his experiences might not reflect the general way things work and such and questioned that post's relevance to the topic, it only sidetracked halfway when I was being criticized for it by multiple members.
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