Sofee's Crib

*sofee's parents read blog*......waiting for the screams

 

ah the dramas of teenage life, by the next time you're allowed out of the bedroom & near a computer M/B will probably be long broken up & you'll have moved onto another potential bf.

If the parents find out about the things we've been up to,

 

Okay, don't want to be that guy but I think the fact that he's three years older than you when you're 16 doesn't help. Not judging, but even less restrictive parents would probably not be entirely pleased with that :P Again, I see no problems but your parents are only trying to protect. But then again, that probably doesn't help you very much at this point in your life. Does telling your parents nicely to mind their own business work? Probably not, but it's worth a try. You're 16 after all.

I wonder what would happen if you asked your parents "At what age am I allowed to have a normal life and date people?"

 

We've had this discussion many times. They say when I reach uni.

 

@reepicheep - From my POV it's a plus because he's wiser and more experienced than me. But yeah I see where you're coming from.

If you found a guy your age or closer, your parents may be less inclined to go off at you. It's always nice to tell your parents before you go anywhere with a new "boyfriend", or potential. Obviously that's difficult to share with some parents, such as mine, or indeed yours.

 

And considering you've done stuff that's kinda struck that short again - if you then go to tell your parents and they see you together, they'll think you're way too touchy feely for only seeing each other over the course of what they think is "a week".

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Also clarify done stuff.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

pics plz.

lilshu, on , said:

 

I wonder what would happen if you asked your parents "At what age am I allowed to have a normal life and date people?"

 

We've had this discussion many times. They say when I reach uni.

 

@reepicheep - From my POV it's a plus because he's wiser and more experienced than me. But yeah I see where you're coming from.

Fair point. So long as it's not an issue, it's not an issue

 

Having him come over to see your parents is presumably a bad idea?

Having him come over to see your parents is presumably a bad idea?

 

Oh gawd yes. The house would probably explode.

 

@Hunter - But if I do tell them, then they'll want me to stop working and they'll develop some sense of hatred for him for taking their precious only child away from them. So he would be cut out of my life if I told them. So if the time comes I'll just say we were friends for...a very long time.

I think Maya got bored of writing here so I'll write on behalf of her.

writing on behalf of her, because you are her!

Your parents sound similar to mine, my dad heard me talking to a girl on Skype, got a pretty big lecture :P

 

I just wouldn't tell them that's what I tend to do.

Not telling has its issues too though. I can't imagine having a girlfriend behind my parents' backs (though they would love it if I had a gf probably :P). Don't forget that if they find out it'll hurt them.

Sofee this is your father speaking

reepicheep, on , said:

 

Having him come over to see your parents is presumably a bad idea?

 

Oh gawd yes. The house would probably explode.

 

@Hunter - But if I do tell them, then they'll want me to stop working and they'll develop some sense of hatred for him for taking their precious only child away from them. So he would be cut out of my life if I told them. So if the time comes I'll just say we were friends for...a very long time.

 

Eh obviously I don't know your parents but I'd hope they'd be more reasonable than you imagine. Certainly my parents were. My mum is still annoyed that "her little boy is being taken away from her", even though SHE'S the one moving country >< go figure.