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That’s rough. I assume you don’t have kids since you didn’t mention any. That’s at least a plus. 

7 minutes ago, bros before hoes said:

That’s rough. I assume you don’t have kids since you didn’t mention any. That’s at least a plus. 

Nope, but there's a dog

24 minutes ago, Synapsi said:

Nope, but there's a dog

Basically a kid lol. 

 

1 minute ago, bros before hoes said:

Basically a kid lol. 

Don't I know it. He was a rescue from the local pound as a 2 year old

How old is he now

21 minutes ago, bros before hoes said:

How old is he now

7

That’s about how old my dog is. 

I've got an email notification for your blog

from 2009 or something

 

sorry to hear life can be rough sometimes, rip 2009

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What better to do than mimic my 15 year old self and overshare on the internet?

Good! You are far better off talking about these things, in whatever form, than bottle it up inside. Your pain is something most people can, to some extent, relate to. One of my experiences has been that, the older I am getting, the more I realise I am still pretty young. Sometimes, it is better to just stop, evaluate how life is going, and make decisions on what directions to head next. Your life came to a halt, so if that is the case, regroup and figure out what you want life to be like, and pour yourself into that. 

 

Is that easier said than done? Of course it is, but that is the purpose of a goal, hopes and a dream.  

 

Something that helped me was reframing positivity back into my life.

I would write three things I was grateful for every day. I would also write about all the positive things that happened in the day.

After a while, you stop focusing so heavily on the negatives, and your mind is always searching for the positives. Of course, life still happens, and it can be good or bad, and you can't change those things easily. But with a different frame of mind, things can get easier.

You've got this, and of course, if you ever want to talk, I'm down. I've been through it all too.