@sneezingtree
nah fam i didnt feel offended at all.. that was actually comforting to read..
"you are provided with a glimpse of the constraints of adulthood"
what did you mean by this
"you may forget that just because you all have the mutual connection to your university, it also has the size of a medium-sized city: how many people can you actually connect with in a city?"
by this you mean i cant ever be connected to everyone right?
You go to a friggin' HUGE university with 80,000 people and you probably see people all around you making you say 'if there's people everywhere why do I feel so isolated?'
yeah this EXACTLY bro i feel this way allllllllllll the time.
ill try the listening thing when classes start again i guess.. tbh conversation isnt really that big of a deal i mean i can USUALLY start a convo with a girl beside me but if shes even 2 seats away ill good kitty! out.. but yeah ill for sure try to get them to tlak more about themselves
and lool okay but im not even kidding but feelings fudge with you so bad.. like its annoying to want them to talk to you so bad and you cant even focus on anyhting.
ill also try to join some clubs.. but honestly apart from sports i really am not interested in anything so im going to join intramural sports first of all
even if im a good listener tho i still have learn how to be funny and engaging;.. i dont want to be a robot right
but thanks man ill for sure try my best when the new school year starts again but yeah feeling not connected feels realllly bad.. plus i consider myself pretty social so i get kinda depressed when i have none to talk to