Would This Be Gay?

[basketballman]

I think my friend's cousin is good looking(I'm a guy so is he). Would I be gay do you think?

 

Feel free to flame, I don't really care, I just want your opinions.

[iByers1337]

look i know im not gay,

 

and based off what u just said, i dont find it gay.

 

(if ur a guy, ask yourself this question, do you think the guys on highschool musical are somewhat "pretty")

 

i mean come on, we know they are pretty.

doesnt mean your gay.

[Twist of Fate]

Doesn't sound like you have a sexual attraction to him. Just don't be insecure about it.

Edited November 16, 2008 by Twist of Fate

[Simple013]

I think my friend's cousin is good looking(I'm a guy so is he). Would I be gay do you think?

Sure you are... about as gay as those bikes leaning against each other when parked. One beautiful bike next to an old banger.

 

--Simple--

[Meen]

Not at all! Girls call each other "stunning" or whatever all the time -- it shouldn't be any different for guys (although they tend to be less vocal about it)

[William Howard Taft]

I'm sorry, I have to say this, but I lol'd at the title...

 

However, no, I don't think that's gay. I don't think it's at all strange, either, I mean, girls do that and they aren't all lesbians, so I don't see why guys would be gay for thinking that.

[Hutton]

I think my friend's cousin is good looking(I'm a guy so is he). Would I be gay do you think?

 

Feel free to flame, I don't really care, I just want your opinions.

 

There's a difference between being able to tell someone is good looking, and a sexual attraction. So no, you're not.

 

~Hutton~

[3volution]

If you think he looks good for a guy that's not homosexual, but if you have a sexual attraction to him, yes that would be gay.

[Bloodysword]

Well if you think he's just attractive, sure thats a-okay. But if your wanting to get in his pants...

[Chunky]

If you think he looks good for a guy that's not homosexual, but if you have a sexual attraction to him, yes that would be gay.

 

Yupp.

Edited November 16, 2008 by Toungy
Please don't spam. ~Toungy

[William Howard Taft]

I don't know how long I'll be able to contain my less appropriate thoughts on the matter...

[jack-nicholson]

If any of you know the actor Billy Zane I totally have the hots for him and I'm totally heterosexual. And Steve McQueen, hell I wouldn't mind just hanging out in a sauna with him shirtless, just a couple of good looking masculine men, but not gay.

 

Basketballman the real question you gotta ask, is do you feel lust, sexual attraction, a desire to give in to him in romantic ways. And how old are you? Give it some time kid, let puberty run its course and then sort through the ashes of the post- apocalyptic post pubescence. Just wait it out, don't jump around or experiment without a hypothesis.

Slow and easy, it's not a race man.

[Fatalysm]

Taking the next step would definitely be homosexual. I always tend to think that it doesn't matter what the person's sex is, if i like that person there isn't anything I'm gonna be able to change about it.

[Pixel Bunnie]

It doesn't mean anything. Finding someone good-looking and being attracted to them sexually are two different concepts.

[Phoenix Rider]

I find many of my friends good looking. Girls and guys. It's simply an opinion. It's when ur attracted to them sexually and wish to pursue a relationship..etc, then there's a chance u could be bi/homosexual.

[Ak-47]

Not at all! Girls call each other "stunning" or whatever all the time -- it shouldn't be any different for guys (although they tend to be less vocal about it)

 

 

You my friend, are correct, and stole half of what I would say.

Have you heard girls- Oh, you look nice today!

Don't worry, don't tell anyone, and you'll be fine. Everybody has this feeling ^_^

[Pandaloo]

No, and even if it was an attraction, you might not be gay. There are other things, bisexual, pansexual, hetero/homoflexible etc.

[Gavin]

Severely. Might as well go marry him now.

[soxking]

As long as you don't have posters up on your walls I'd say it's ok.

 

But seriously some people are just good looking. (like me!) Noticing doesn't make you gay. Just observant.

[Doom]

Not at all! Girls call each other "stunning" or whatever all the time -- it shouldn't be any different for guys (although they tend to be less vocal about it)

What if a guy calls me that. ._.

 

Don't worry, it's alright. There's nothing wrong with saying somebody looks good.

And I'm not going to hate you or anything if you're gay either. In this case, it wouldn't make you gay.

[Arapaho]

nope, i know what ya mean

Like girls say to other girls your hair looks good or sumthin

doesnt mean their lesbian ^_^

[Birthday]

no. you're not gay. Just because you think someone looks good who is the same gender as you doesn't make you gay. I could say brad pitt looks nice, (though I don't think he does) but that doesn't make me gay.

[jack-nicholson]

There is just a lot of social stigma and taboo over guys complimenting each other sometimes. Some will take offense, or be confused and some will accept it. So don't be cornered in by Society's biases, judge for yourself.

[Arapaho]

There is just a lot of social stigma and taboo over guys complimenting each other sometimes. Some will take offense, or be confused and some will accept it. So don't be cornered in by Society's biases, judge for yourself.

Jack-nicholson are you like me from a diffrent dimesion?

Thats exactly what my "Beliefs[not religion]" are.

Edited November 16, 2008 by laughing duck

[balloons]

no. i think if you day dream about "things" with that person you are